So you’ve said “Yes!” to the love of your life, and now you’re choosing a wedding venue for your big day. Exciting, right? But also a little… overwhelming. With so many options out there, how do you pick the one that’ll make your wedding day everything you’ve dreamed of? Don’t worry — I’ve got you covered with 10 questions to ask a venue that’ll help you make the right choice without the stress.
First things first: let’s talk money. Before you fall in love with a venue that’s out of your price range (we know, the chandeliers are so pretty!), set a clear budget. Think about not just the venue cost, but also what’s included (like catering, decor, etc.). And remember, your budget is your friend — don’t feel bad about sticking to it. You’ll be glad you did when you’re sipping margaritas on your honeymoon instead of sweating about credit card bills!
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This might sound obvious, but you’d be surprised how many couples forget to account for how many people they’re inviting! Make sure the venue can comfortably hold your guest list without feeling cramped or too sparse. You want your wedding to feel just right — not like a packed concert or a deserted house party.
Bonus tip: Always have a few extra seats for the surprise +1!
From boho-chic to glamorous ballroom vibes, your venue should be the backdrop that enhances your theme. Whether you’re getting married in a rustic barn, a sleek modern art gallery, or a luxurious beach resort, make sure the space fits your vision. It’s your special day — let the venue help tell your love story.
Ah, the wedding date. The one thing you can’t change once it’s locked in. When thinking of questions to ask the venue for your wedding, make sure your dream venue is available on the day you’ve chosen! If it’s not, don’t be afraid to get creative with your timeline or have a chat with the venue to explore other date options. You’ll be surprised how many couples can flex if they really want to get married at a particular spot.
Planning your wedding in the fall? Embrace the beauty of nature and the warmth of love at the Old Train Depot just like this couple did!
You know those photos that look perfect online? Trust us — they can be misleading! Nothing beats seeing the venue in person. Visit to get a true sense of the place: Is it as beautiful as it looks? Is it well-maintained? Does the vibe match the one you’ve envisioned for your wedding? Take a walk around, explore the space, and take it all in. After all, this is where your wedding memories will unfold!
Many venues offer all-inclusive packages that can take a lot of stress off your plate. When thinking about questions to ask the venue for your wedding, be sure to ask what’s included in the price — do they offer catering, or do you need to bring in your own food? Do they handle the decor, or will you need to hire a designer? If they provide some services, it might make your planning process a whole lot easier. Bonus points for a venue with great food!
Who doesn’t love a good country wedding? This couple created the most charming rustic wedding at the Sparrow Beginnings.
Not all wedding venues are created equal when it comes to external vendors. Some venues only allow specific catering companies or florists, while others let you bring in your dream team. Make sure the venue’s vendor policy aligns with your plans and preferences. After all, if you’ve got a caterer in mind who makes the best wedding cake on the planet, you’ll want to know they can work with your venue!
Let’s face it: your guests probably aren’t going to walk to the venue in stilettos. Make sure it’s easy for your guests to get there, whether they’re driving or using public transport. Check for ample parking spaces, nearby hotels, and how close the venue is to major roads. Bonus points for venues that offer shuttle services to and from hotels!
Outdoor weddings are stunning — until Mother Nature decides to show up uninvited. If you’re planning an alfresco ceremony or reception, ask about the venue’s backup plan for rain, wind, or anything else that might spoil your outdoor dreams. A tent, an indoor space, or an on-site shelter can make all the difference when the weather doesn’t cooperate.
This picturesque wedding is to die for… See how this couple turned The Meadow on the Creek into such a fairytale wedding.
Still unsure? Take a look at what other couples have said about the venue. Wedding reviews can give you a behind-the-scenes look at how the venue operates, the quality of the service, and any potential hiccups. Positive reviews are like gold — and if a few things are less-than-perfect, they’ll help you prepare for them.
Knowing what questions to ask a venue for your wedding can feel like a lot of pressure, but remember — it’s all about finding a space that feels right for you and your partner. With these 10 questions in hand, you’ll be ready to say “I do” to the place that makes your heart skip a beat. So go ahead, take a deep breath, and let the venue hunt begin — your dream wedding is waiting!
Hey! I’m Bridget. I’m an Oklahoma City Wedding photographer who loves capturing all of your special moments. Photography lights me up in a way I can’t put into words, and its something I’ve always had an eye for, especially with God’s guidance to capture wholesome moments. I strive to make you feel comfortable in front of the camera, I’ll try to crack jokes, and I’ll try not to talk too fast because I’m always extra caffeinated. Learn more about booking a wedding with me by clicking below.